{"id":2372,"date":"2021-02-15T20:05:00","date_gmt":"2021-02-15T20:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?p=2372"},"modified":"2023-01-27T23:08:55","modified_gmt":"2023-01-27T23:08:55","slug":"scriu-pentru-ca-imi-face-bine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/scriu-pentru-ca-imi-face-bine\/","title":{"rendered":"Scriu pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi face bine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u0218tim cu to\u021bii c\u0103 de la o vreme online-ul abund\u0103 \u00een bloggeri, scriitori pasiona\u021bi, jurnali\u0219ti vocali, influenceri \u0219i fiecare dintre ei scrie \u00eentr-un mod unic; unii foarte profesionist, iar al\u021bii&#8230;ei bine, au prins mi\u0219carea din mers \u0219i au tot mers odat\u0103 cu trendul, dezvolt\u00e2ndu-se \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De fapt, tocmai fiindc\u0103 sunt aproape sigur\u0103 c\u0103 acest segment este deja suprasaturat \u00eemi d\u0103 curajul s\u0103 \u00eemi i\u021besc \u0219i eu capul printre gr\u0103mezile de articole online pe care sf\u00e2ntul scroll ni le aduce pe retin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Imaginati-v\u0103 s\u0103 fim acum la \u00eenceputul erei Facebook \u0219i, in timp ce unii dintre voi \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi func\u021biile butoanelor din pagin\u0103, eu vin s\u0103 v\u0103 tr\u00e2ntesc o sumedenie de pove\u0219ti despre via\u021ba mea personal\u0103 sau a celor pe care i-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u00een c\u0103l\u0103toria mea de p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. Ar fi ciudat, nu-i a\u0219a? S\u0103 m\u0103 expun public \u00eentr-o vreme c\u00e2nd informa\u021bia nu p\u0103trundea chiar at\u00e2t de firesc \u00een orice cas\u0103, \u00een orice laptop, \u00een orice telefon ar fi fost o sinucidere curat\u0103. Acum? Acum a\u0219 putea chiar s\u0103 sper c\u0103 pot trece neobservat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Desigur, ar fi o minciun\u0103 \u0219i ipocrizie pur\u0103 s\u0103 spun c\u0103 \u00eemi doresc s\u0103 trec nevazut\u0103, necitit\u0103. Adic\u0103, de ce a\u0219 mai scrie public? Ei bine, sunt u\u0219or dement\u0103 \u0219i cred c\u0103 \u00een toat\u0103 avalan\u0219a acesta de pove\u0219ti \u0219i \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri de via\u021b\u0103 real\u0103, pe alocuri fanteziste, pe alocuri dramatizate inten\u021bionat, am \u0219i eu dramul meu de <em>quelque chose<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am \u00eencurajat singur\u0103. M-am g\u00e2ndit la cum m\u0103 fascineaz\u0103 absolut dintotdeauna faptul c\u0103, de\u0219i suntem c\u00e2teva miliarde bune de oameni, desenele papilare digitale sau mai pe \u00een\u021belesul nostru, al tuturor, amprentele &#8211; sunt unice. Strict individuale. De ce nu a\u0219 \u00eendr\u0103zni \u0219i eu s\u0103 cred c\u0103 perspectiva lumii v\u0103zut\u0103 prin ochii mei este unic\u0103 \u0219i poate aduce elemente inedite \u00een toat\u0103 marea de experien\u021be puse laolalt\u0103 \u00een mediul online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd am ar\u0103tat primele articole de pe blogul meu unei prietene, \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 eram, <em>fire\u0219te<\/em>, extrem de emo\u021bionat\u0103 \u0219i nerabdatoare s\u0103 \u00eemi dea o p\u0103rere sincer\u0103 \u0219i efectiv mi-a r\u0103mas \u00eentip\u0103rit\u0103 \u00een memorie expresia ei: \u201a\u201a<em>citeam \u0219i parca te aveam \u00een fa\u021b\u0103. Parc\u0103 te auzeam vorbind. Ai reu\u0219it s\u0103 transmi\u021bi exact lucrurile pe care mi le-ai fi putut spune dac\u0103 eram \u00eempreun\u0103\u2019\u2019<\/em>. Mi-a dat curaj \u0219i tot ea, \u00eenc\u0103 o face \u0219i ast\u0103zi. [<em>Mul\u021bumesc, Lavi<\/em>!]\n\n\n\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 cred c\u0103 exist\u0103 oameni care se identific\u0103 m\u0103car pu\u021bin cu ceea ce am tr\u0103it sau g\u00e2ndit eu la un moment dat, iar dac\u0103 tot \u00eemi pun sufletul pe tav\u0103, s\u0103 storc m\u0103car o emo\u021bie, de orice fel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As vrea s\u0103 clarific\u0103m o treab\u0103 important\u0103: scriu pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi face bine mie, chiar dac\u0103 m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 ce crede cel care m\u0103 cite\u0219te. Da, bine, o s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 \u0219i eu am picat de multe ori \u00een capcana &#8222;<em>scriu doar pentru mine, nu pentru musai pentru un public&#8221;<\/em>, fiindc\u0103 \u00een realiatate mi-a luat ani de zile s\u0103 ajung la curajul suprem \u0219i s\u0103 arunc \u00een ochii lui lucruri care m\u0103 fr\u0103m\u00e2nt\u0103 sau despre care pur \u0219i simplu \u00eemi place s\u0103 scriu. Dar mi se pare (\u0219i poate \u00eentr-adev\u0103r e doar impresia mea) c\u0103 am at\u00e2t de multe de spus \u0219i m-am convins cu fiecare articol pe care l-am dus la bun sf\u00e2r\u0219it c\u0103 o fac pentru am\u00e2ndoi. Pentru mine \u0219i el, cititorul. Oricare ar fi el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2t despre ceea ce voi scrie&#8230; Ei bine, sunt doar un om care se folose\u0219te de litere cu un amestec profund de respect, nevoie (<em>a<\/em> <em>se citi dependen\u021b\u0103<\/em>) \u0219i iubire, pentru a \u00ee\u0219i exprima st\u0103rile \u00een scris. Mi-am impus s\u0103 nu fiu siropoas\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 evit cli\u0219eele pe c\u00e2t de mult sunt capabil\u0103 (eu apreciez enorm acest lucru la al\u021bi oameni).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi doresc s\u0103 m\u0103 exprim clar \u0219i pe \u00eentelesul tuturor (de\u0219i sunt absolut convins\u0103 c\u0103 nu am dop la robinet \u0219i uneori curg mult prea multe idei \u00eentr-un paragraf). \u00cemi doresc s\u0103 nu fiu grosolan\u0103, de\u0219i eu in via\u021ba de zi cu zi chiar am un limbaj bogat \u0219i &#8230; viu colorat. Asta da provocare! Ha! Vreau doar s\u0103 spun c\u0103 \u0219tiu, pot \u0219i nu m\u0103 tem s\u0103 vorbesc ca un b\u0103rbat, asta dac\u0103 emit o judecat\u0103 de valoare grav\u0103 \u0219i zic c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii ar \u00eenjura mai mult dec\u00e2t femeile; \u00een realitate cred c\u0103 suntem la un scor extrem de strans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen final, sper s\u0103 nu m\u0103 \u00eendep\u0103rtez prea mult de mine pe parcursul acestei experien\u021be de exhibi\u021bie sufleteasc\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>Fiindc\u0103 actul de scrie, oric\u00e2t de mult l-ai \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi pe re\u021bele de socializare sau alte forme scrise, r\u0103m\u00e2ne unul foarte personal \u0219i intim. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cenainte s\u0103 devin\u0103 al nostru, al tuturor, este mai \u00eent\u00e2i al meu \u0219i consider c\u0103 numai p\u0103str\u00e2nd aceasta doz\u0103 de fidelitate a unuia fa\u021b\u0103 de cel\u0103lalt, eu \u0219i scrisul, putem s\u0103 speram c\u0103 \u00een mintea cuiva se vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne m\u0103car p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103torul scroll, cele \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ite.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0218tim cu to\u021bii c\u0103 de la o vreme online-ul abund\u0103 \u00een bloggeri, scriitori pasiona\u021bi, jurnali\u0219ti vocali, influenceri \u0219i fiecare dintre ei scrie \u00eentr-un mod unic; unii foarte profesionist, iar al\u021bii&#8230;ei&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2373,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[55,54,56],"powerkit_post_featured":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2372"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2372"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2372\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2374,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2372\/revisions\/2374"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2373"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2372"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2372"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2372"},{"taxonomy":"powerkit_post_featured","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fpowerkit_post_featured&post=2372"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}