{"id":2430,"date":"2022-03-09T02:01:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-09T02:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?p=2430"},"modified":"2023-01-28T02:08:00","modified_gmt":"2023-01-28T02:08:00","slug":"cand-nu-stii-ce-sa-crezi-alege-sa-crezi-ca-esti-frumoasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/cand-nu-stii-ce-sa-crezi-alege-sa-crezi-ca-esti-frumoasa\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd nu \u0219tii ce s\u0103 crezi, alege s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 e\u0219ti frumoas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Plec\u00e2nd de la o postare de pe pagina BebeKiki.Ro<\/a> care mi-a dat de g\u00e2ndit, a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc ce cred eu c\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u0219te feti\u021ba mea, care desigur, nu mai este bebelu\u0219, dar \u00een majoritatea timpului se comport\u0103 ca unul. \"????\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum dou\u0103 zile m-am tuns, mi-am schimbat complet aspectul p\u0103rului, iar Anastasia a mers cu mine la salon. A avut rabdare s\u0103 stea l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine c\u00e2t timp doamna aia cu m\u00e2ini divine mi-a facut un masaj capilar demen\u021bial dup\u0103 ce m-a sp\u0103lat, m-a r\u0103sf\u0103\u021bat,  apoi m-am pensat \u0219i intr-un final am \u00eencheiat o zi dedicat\u0103 mie, la cump\u0103r\u0103turi. Anastasia m-a \u00eenso\u021bit f\u0103r\u0103 proteste ca de obicei<\/em>, iar c\u00e2nd ne-am urcat \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103 s\u0103 plec\u0103m acas\u0103 mi-a zis:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– \u00cemi place cum te-ai tuns mami, \u00eemi place de tine cu p\u0103rul a\u0219a.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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– Mul\u021bumesc, iubita mea.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Apoi i-am completat, dar mai mult pentru mine, fiindc\u0103 nu m\u0103 a\u0219teptam s\u0103 priceap\u0103 sensul vorbelor mele:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Adevarul este c\u0103 \u00een ultima vreme nu m\u0103 mai aranjez deloc, nu mai am grij\u0103 de mine.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

R\u0103spunsul ei mi-a mai dat o lec\u021bie important\u0103 de bun\u0103tate (pe care uneori chiar nu simt c\u0103 o merit<\/em>) \u0219i claritate, dar mai cu seam\u0103, m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 con\u0219tientizez dou\u0103 lucruri importante:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eMie \u00eemi place de tine \u0219i c\u00e2nd ai p\u0103rul \u00een v\u00e2rful capului, esti frumoas\u0103 tot, pentru mine. \u0218i dac\u0103 nu te aranjezi, ai grij\u0103 de mine. Mamele are grij\u0103 de copii \u0219i nu se mai aranjeaz\u0103.<\/em><\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Iar cele dou\u0103 lucruri importante sunt acestea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

   1.<\/strong> Copiii NE V\u0102D <\/strong>chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd credem c\u0103 sunt prea mici s\u0103 observe, s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103, s\u0103 cuprind\u0103. Ochii lor f\u0103r\u0103 filtre<\/em> impuse de societate \u00eenc\u0103 v\u0103d dincolo de ambalajul nostru, al p\u0103rin\u021bilor, al prietenilor lor, al oamenilor cu care vin \u00een contact. Copiii spun \u00eentotdeauna adev\u0103rul pentru c\u0103 ei chiar \u00ceL V\u0102D<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

   2. Suntem frumoase<\/strong>, da, chiar dac\u0103 noi adul\u021bii restr\u00e2ngem \u00een mod absolut superficial conceptul de frumuse\u021be la tr\u0103s\u0103turile fizice, coafur\u0103, hainele pe care le purt\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odat\u0103 ce am asimilat cele dou\u0103 informa\u021bii de mai sus, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 faptul c\u0103 am oprit instant pe dreapta s\u0103 o s\u0103rut pe guri\u021ba aia \u0219tirb\u0103 \u0219i s\u00e2s\u00e2it\u0103, \u00een cele dou\u0103 zile de atunci mi-am f\u0103cut multe selfiuri ca s\u0103 \u00eemi stea m\u0103rturie peste timp, c\u0103 poate vor fi momente c\u00e2nd voi uita iar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Plec\u00e2nd de la o postare de pe pagina BebeKiki.Ro care mi-a dat de g\u00e2ndit, a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc ce cred eu c\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u0219te feti\u021ba mea, care desigur, nu mai…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2431,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[47,43,55],"powerkit_post_featured":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2430"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2432,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430\/revisions\/2432"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2431"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2430"},{"taxonomy":"powerkit_post_featured","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fpowerkit_post_featured&post=2430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}