Mi-am asumat faptul c\u0103 unii se vor uita la mine dup\u0103 toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 poveste ca la un om bolnav, poate cu mil\u0103, poate cu o curiozitate autentic\u0103 de a \u00een\u021belege cu ce naiba se m\u0103n\u00e2nce acest ADHD, c\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i numele-i ciudat. Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 da, denumirea de ADHD <\/strong>(tulburarea cu deficit de atentie si hiperactivitate)<\/strong><\/em>e oleac\u0103 \u00eencurcat\u0103, cam ca mintea unei persoane afectate, dar NU, nu este o boal\u0103, ci un dezechilibru al neurotransmi\u021b\u0103torilor cerebrali. Mai pe scurt \u0219i pe rom\u00e2ne\u0219te: creieru\u2019 meu este dezvoltat diferit. Punct. Nu sunt bolnav\u0103, nu sunt mai prost\u0103nac\u0103, nu sunt nebun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Partea proast\u0103 este c\u0103 recunoa\u0219terea semnelor tipice de ADHD a venit (foarte t\u00e2rziu) la v\u00e2rsta de 31 de ani, ceea ce mi-a oferit suficient timp s\u0103 dezvolt extrem de multe dificult\u0103\u021bi de a m\u0103 adapta \u00een lumea \u00een care tr\u0103iesc, comun\u0103 cu lumea celorlalte persoane \u201enormale\u201d pe care tot cercet\u0103torii le-a denumit \u201eneurotipice\u201d. S\u0103 dezvolt burnout, depresii, judec\u0103\u021bi critice la adresa propriei persoane, s\u0103 uit lucruri extrem de importante, s\u0103 pierd de asemenea, oameni \u0219i lucruri materiale care mi-au l\u0103sat un gol imens. S\u0103 m\u0103 apuc de o sut\u0103 de chestii o dat\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 sar de la una la alta, s\u0103 am\u00e2n inevitabilul \u0219-apoi s\u0103 m\u0103 frig\u0103 cronometrul, s\u0103 m\u0103 frustrez des, s\u0103 \u00eei frustrez pe al\u021bii, s\u0103 iau decizii gre\u0219ite sub impulsul dopaminei secretat\u0103 pe un timp scurt, sau s\u0103 am\u00e2n s\u0103 iau decizii majore cu impact sever asupra psihicului meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Partea bun\u0103 este c\u0103 diagnosticarea \u0219i primii pa\u0219i pentru ameliorarea st\u0103rilor generate de aceste manifest\u0103ri ale ADHD-ului \u00een via\u021ba mea au adus lumin\u0103 \u0219i claritate. \u0218tii ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 ca mi s-a schimbat via\u021ba?<\/strong> Pur \u0219i simplu totul are o explica\u021bie, rostesc \u201eAHA!\u201d dup\u0103 \u201eAHA\u201d! \u0219i ar fi mare p\u0103cat s\u0103 nu pot \u00eemp\u0103rta\u0219i toate astea cu oamenii care au nevoie de aceast\u0103 cunoa\u0219tere despre sine, a\u0219a cum eu am avut p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een decembrie 2021.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tocmai de aceea sunt sigur\u0103 c\u0103 dup\u0103 povestea asta oamenii gre\u0219i\u021bi vor judeca, vor r\u00e2de, <\/strong>vor cerceta mai mult \u00een ei pentru a-\u0219i confirma \u0219ie\u0219i c\u0103 nu au acelea\u0219i probleme ca mine, DAR dac\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 trec prin ap\u0103 \u0219i foc, prejudec\u0103\u021bi, glumi\u021be nes\u0103rate, block sau report (sper s\u0103 nu fie cazul, sincer!) pentru a ajunge la oamenii care au nevoie s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 e \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103 fie diferi\u021bi,<\/strong> c\u0103 exist\u0103 #via\u021bacuADHD<\/a> \u0219i c\u0103 toate resursele de vindecare (ADHD nu se vindeca, dar starea fizic\u0103 \u0219i psihic\u0103 poate fi gestionat\u0103 \u0219i \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bit\u0103) interioar\u0103 sunt \u00een fiecare dintre ei, atunci cu mare bucurie.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n To\u021bi suntem diferi\u021bi,<\/strong> \u00eentr-un sens sau altul, dar \u00ee\u021bi trebuie al dracului de mult curaj s\u0103-\u021bi recuno\u0219ti public vulnerabilit\u0103\u021bile, mai ales \u00eentr-o vreme \u00een care ecranul \u0219i tastatura ofer\u0103 o pelerin\u0103 de supererou, puternic, de\u0219tept, perfect \u0219i cu acces direct \u0219i nelimitat la internet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt (sau nu prea) preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 vorbesc despre asta, fiindc\u0103 exist\u0103 speran\u021b\u0103, realiz\u0103ri profesionale importante, visuri \u00eemplinite, familie fericit\u0103, bucurie \u0219i lumin\u0103 \u00een <\/strong>#via\u021bacuADHD<\/a><\/strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Faptul c\u0103 suf\u0103r de ADHD mi-a afectat considerabil de-a lungul vie\u021bii eforturile de a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba, activitatea profesional\u0103, stima de sine \u0219i rela\u021biile cu cei din jur. 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