{"id":2900,"date":"2023-03-07T11:21:00","date_gmt":"2023-03-07T09:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?p=2900"},"modified":"2025-06-05T08:35:15","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T06:35:15","slug":"esecul-este-rau-doar-daca-nu-ti-dai-voie-sa-l-testezi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/esecul-este-rau-doar-daca-nu-ti-dai-voie-sa-l-testezi\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u0219ecul este r\u0103u, doar dac\u0103 nu-\u021bi dai voie s\u0103-l testezi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap is-cnvs-dropcap-bordered\">Ne place sau nu s\u0103 credem, suntem unici \u0219i speciali. \u00centr-o m\u0103sur\u0103 sau alt\u0103. Da, \u0219tiu c\u0103 e mega cli\u0219eu, dar \u0219tii de ce trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 crezi pe cuv\u00e2nt, cu at\u00e2t mai mult cu c\u00e2t vine de la mine? Pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi garantez c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 un om mai autocritic, autosabotor \u0219i autocenzurat dec\u00e2t mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oric\u00e2t de multe exemple a\u0219 \u00eencepe s\u0103 dau, nu a\u0219 putea explica suficient c\u00e2t de mult m-am \u00eempotrivit eu propriului destin. \u0218i nu, nu m\u0103 refer la dragoste sau rela\u021biile cu cei din jur, acolo unde nu m-am ferit o secund\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 arunc cu capul \u00eenainte, ci mai cu seam\u0103 la \u00eemplinirea personal\u0103. Aia care \u021bine mai ales de carier\u0103, de ceea ce m\u0103 define\u0219te pe mine, omul. Omul care viseaz\u0103, omul care se exploreaz\u0103 pe sine, omul care \u00ee\u0219i da voie s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i urmeze pasiunile oric\u00e2t de nebune\u0219ti ar p\u0103rea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am fost \u00eentotdeauna o persoan\u0103 de \u00eencredere. Dac\u0103 prietenii mei aveau nevoie de sfaturi, le-a\u0219 fi dat. Dac\u0103 aveau nevoie de sprijin s\u0103 ia o anumit\u0103 decizie, i-a\u0219 fi sprijinit. Dar ceea ce \u00eemi&nbsp;era cel mai greu s\u0103 fac era s\u0103 m\u0103 sprijin pe mine \u00eens\u0103mi, s\u0103 am \u00eencredere \u00een deciziile mele \u0219i mai ales, s\u0103 am curajul s\u0103 dau voie s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple destinului meu.&nbsp;(chiar dac\u0103 pe undeva mi se pare o arogan\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 am impresia c\u0103 de\u021binem cu adev\u0103rat controlul lui)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0102 \u00ceMI DAU VOIE s\u0103 pierd controlul \u0103la obsesiv de om nebun, fricos, ne\u00eencrez\u0103tor&nbsp;\u00een propriile daruri&nbsp;&#8211; a fost cel mai greu lucru pe care l-am f\u0103cut vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centrebarea care m-a dezamorsat \u00eentotdeauna atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eemi venea \u00een minte c\u00e2te o idee de proiect era tot timpul aceea\u0219i: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>\u201eCine sunt eu s\u0103..?\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Zbang! Fix \u00een plex m\u0103 loveau credin\u021bele limitative, team\u0103 c\u0103 nu sunt suficient de bun\u0103 pentru asta sau cealalt\u0103, sau mai ales, team\u0103 de e\u0219ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-cnvs-paragraph-callout\">Pentru c\u0103 nu-i a\u0219a, nou\u0103 ni s-a spus \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103 e\u0219ecul este ceva r\u0103u. Nu ne-am g\u00e2ndit o secund\u0103 c\u0103, de fapt, principiul \u00eencerc\u0103rii \u0219i erorii este SINGURUL mod prin care po\u021bi s\u0103 testezi ce func\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat sau nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Norocul meu este c\u0103 printre numeroase alte defecte \u00eel am pe asta de baz\u0103: sunt super \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nat\u0103. \u0218i cumva, nu \u0219tiu cum am, am reu\u0219it s\u0103 nu renun\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toate gre\u0219elile \u0219i \u00eencerc\u0103rile de p\u00e2n\u0103 acum m-au pus fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu mine \u0219i mi-au conturat o singur\u0103 direc\u021bie. Tare lung \u0219i chinuitor fost drumul p\u00e2n\u0103 aici, dar a meritat pentru&nbsp;c\u0103 acum e ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd a\u0219 avea o super putere s\u0103 v\u0103d gratiile de fier forjat care m\u0103 \u00eenconjoar\u0103. Cum apare frica, cum imediat vizualizez cu\u0219ca&nbsp;mental\u0103 \u00een care m\u0103 \u00eencui singur\u0103, iar asta m\u0103 for\u021beaz\u0103 s\u0103 ies din zona de confort \u0219i s\u0103 lupt pentru propria mea libertate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 da, s\u0103 faci ceva care conteaz\u0103 pentru via\u021ba&nbsp;ta, orice, dar s\u0103 faci cu pl\u0103cere,&nbsp;\u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai voie s\u0103 fii liber de la interior&nbsp;c\u0103tre exterior. De restul de ocup\u0103 nem\u0103rginit Divinitatea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ne place sau nu s\u0103 credem, suntem unici \u0219i speciali. \u00centr-o m\u0103sur\u0103 sau alt\u0103. Da, \u0219tiu c\u0103 e mega cli\u0219eu, dar \u0219tii de ce trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 crezi pe cuv\u00e2nt,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2911,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"powerkit_post_featured":[6],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2900"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2900"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2900\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2902,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2900\/revisions\/2902"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2911"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2900"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2900"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2900"},{"taxonomy":"powerkit_post_featured","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fpowerkit_post_featured&post=2900"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}