{"id":3074,"date":"2025-06-03T11:59:23","date_gmt":"2025-06-03T09:59:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?p=3074"},"modified":"2025-06-05T08:47:17","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T06:47:17","slug":"cum-am-avut-norocul-sa-traiesc-asa-iubire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/cum-am-avut-norocul-sa-traiesc-asa-iubire\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum am avut norocul s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc a\u0219a iubire?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>\u201c- <em>Nu \u0219tiu, \u021bi-am mai zis de en\u0219pe mii de ori.<\/em><br>&#8211; <em>Cum s\u0103 nu \u0219tii, se uit\u0103 la mine cu ochii \u0103ia c\u00e2t cepele, tu \u0219tii tot.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h6 id=\"imi-place-cum-mirosi-mirosi-ca-o-gogoasa-calda-cand-stau-multe-zile-fara-tine-mi-se-face-dor-pana-si-in-degetele-de-la-picioare-cand-o-sa-cresc-mare-vreau\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201c\u00cemi place cum miro\u0219i, miro\u0219i ca o gogoa\u0219\u0103 cald\u0103.\u201d<br>\u201cC\u00e2nd stau multe zile f\u0103r\u0103 tine mi se face dor p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i \u00een degetele de la picioare.\u201d<br>\u201cC\u00e2nd o s\u0103 cresc mare vreau s\u0103 fiu ca tine, sau m\u0103car pe jum\u0103tate, dar cred c\u0103 e greu.\u201d<br>\u201cTu m\u0103 cuno\u0219ti c\u00e2nd te ui\u021bi la mine, imediat \u00ee\u021bi dai seama ce g\u00e2ndesc\u201d.<br>\u201cNu \u0219tiu cum faci s\u0103-mi cite\u0219ti g\u00e2ndurile.\u201d<br>\u201c\u00cemi place la scoal\u0103, dar \u0219tii ce mi-ar pl\u0103cea mai mult? S\u0103 fii tu colega mea de banc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ne scriem inimioare \u00een timpul orelor.\u201d<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Copilul meu stie. \u0218tie cine o iube\u0219te dincolo de oboseal\u0103, de greut\u0103\u021bi, de fricile care m\u0103 n\u0103p\u0103desc uneori. \u0218tie c\u0103 poate s\u0103 gre\u0219easc\u0103 oric\u00e2t, s\u0103 se r\u0103zg\u00e2ndeasc\u0103, s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, s\u0103 zbiere \u0219i s\u0103 urle, c\u0103 o s\u0103 fiu acolo s-o \u021bin \u00een bra\u021be p\u00e2n\u0103 sunt sigur\u0103 c\u0103-i este bine. Eu sunt omul \u00een fa\u021ba c\u0103ruia nu trebuie s\u0103 se explice niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Copilul meu m\u0103 simte chiar \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 cuvinte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd o cert, fiindc\u0103 o cert c\u00e2nd trebuie, \u0219tie c\u0103 o fac din grij\u0103 pentru ceea ce mi-as dori s\u0103 nu devin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd stam seara t\u00e2rziu \u00een pat, una l\u00e2ng\u0103 cealalt\u0103 \u00eenghesuite \u00een patul ei, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spunem nimic, \u0219tie c\u0103 a\u0219 face absolut orice pentru ea. C\u0103 m-a\u0219 lupta cu to\u021bi mon\u0219trii din dulap sau de sub pat, \u0219i dac\u0103 a\u0219 putea, cu to\u021bi cei care ne \u00eenconjoar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd o las s\u0103 plece de acas\u0103 cu ghiozdanul \u00een spate mi se pune un nod \u00een g\u00e2t, de\u0219i a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 nu-l mai am. \u0218tiu c\u0103 nici nu-mi apar\u021bine \u0219i nici n-o pot proteja de toate, de\u0219i a\u0219 vrea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Copilul meu \u0219tie adev\u0103rul despre mine, \u0219tie cine st\u0103 la picioarele ei c\u00e2nd e bolnav\u0103, cine l\u0103crimeaz\u0103 la fiecare serbare, cine \u00eei gestioneaz\u0103 toate crizele \u0219i emo\u021biile \u0219i curajul. Nu \u0219tiu cum \u0219tie, pentru c\u0103 eu nu \u00eei ar\u0103t cu degetul, ci numai o iubesc a\u0219a cum pot, a\u0219a cum cred c\u0103 merit\u0103, a\u0219a cum cred c\u0103 meritam \u0219i eu c\u00e2nd eram copil, a\u0219a cum merit\u0103, de altfel, to\u021bi copiii de pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt. \u0218i adul\u021bii. \u0218i noi, \u0103\u0219tia mari merit\u0103m s\u0103 fim iubi\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 ni se reaminteasc\u0103 din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd c\u0103 suntem speciali. Pentru c\u0103 poate, dac\u0103 cineva ne-ar fi spus nou\u0103 toate astea c\u00e2nd eram mici, n-am mai fi t\u0103cut at\u00e2ta din iubire. Poate am fi \u0219tiut c\u0103 iubirea nu trebuie nici demonstrat\u0103, nici justificat\u0103, nici cerut\u0103, nici \u201cmeritat\u0103\u201d, ci doar oferit\u0103 din bel\u0219ug \u0219i tr\u0103it\u0103. Iubirea este un drept primit cu mult timp \u00eenainte de na\u0219tere.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unde plantezi dragoste, \u00eencredere \u0219i r\u0103bdare, n-are cum s\u0103 \u00eenfloreasc\u0103 altceva. M\u0103car at\u00e2ta \u0219tiu \u0219i eu, fiindc\u0103 a\u0219a arat\u0103 dragostea mea, Raiul meu, copilul meu bun, sensibil, iubitor \u0219i bucat\u0103 vie din mine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201c- Nu \u0219tiu, \u021bi-am mai zis de en\u0219pe mii de ori.&#8211; Cum s\u0103 nu \u0219tii, se uit\u0103 la mine cu ochii \u0103ia c\u00e2t cepele, tu \u0219tii tot.\u201d \u201c\u00cemi place cum&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3076,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"powerkit_post_featured":[3,4,6],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3074"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3074"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3074\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3078,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3074\/revisions\/3078"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3076"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3074"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3074"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3074"},{"taxonomy":"powerkit_post_featured","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fpowerkit_post_featured&post=3074"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}