{"id":3080,"date":"2025-06-05T08:28:40","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T06:28:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?p=3080"},"modified":"2025-06-05T08:47:22","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T06:47:22","slug":"dreptul-la-siguranta-personala-nu-e-o-favoare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/dreptul-la-siguranta-personala-nu-e-o-favoare\/","title":{"rendered":"Dreptul la siguran\u021ba personal\u0103 nu e o favoare!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Am crezut c\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai poate surprinde nimic din ce v\u0103d \u00een online, p\u00e2n\u0103 am citit comentariile pline de satisfac\u021bie morbid\u0103 ale unor oameni care sus\u021bin cu o convingere bolnav\u0103 c\u0103 tragedia de la Praid n-ar fi o \u00eent\u00e2mplare, ci o consecin\u021b\u0103 logic\u0103 a faptului c\u0103 \u201ea\u021bi votat cu Nicu\u0219or\u201d \u0219i, ce s\u0103 vezi, \u201ea\u0219a v\u0103 trebuie!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar totu\u0219i nimic nu se compar\u0103 cu ce-am citit despre uciderea Teodorei. S\u0103 spun c\u0103 sunt \u00eengrozit\u0103 e prea pu\u021bin, efectiv mi-e r\u0103u fizic. \u0218i \u0219tiu c\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la un punct avem nevoie de informare, s\u0103 citim pres\u0103, s\u0103 afl\u0103m ce se petrece, dar deja dup\u0103 o anumit\u0103 limit\u0103 se nume\u0219te masochism ceea ce am f\u0103cut eu. Cu toate astea nu m-am putut opri \u0219i am urm\u0103rit comentariile de sub articolele despre Teodora. Inumane. Oamenii \u0103\u0219tia scriu cu o ur\u0103 at\u00e2t de solid\u0103, at\u00e2t de lucid\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 ei exist\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat a\u0219a, sub forma asta infect\u0103 sau sunt doar produsul unui efect ipocrit de turm\u0103, din umbra confortabil\u0103 a tastaturii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Comentariile precum \u201e\u0219i-a meritat-o\u201d c\u0103 \u201esigur a f\u0103cut ea ceva\u201d, c\u0103 \u201edac\u0103 era femeie ca lumea, nu ajungea moart\u0103 pe strad\u0103 ziua \u00een amiaza mare\u201d, dar c\u0103 oricum, \u201efetele astea sunt toate la fel\u201d, or fi de la oameni ca \u0219i mine, cu carne, oase, s\u00e2nge cald? \u0218i stai a\u0219a, c\u0103 nu m-au siderat b\u0103rba\u021bii care scriau cu spume la gur\u0103, ci FEMEILE. Femeile vomitau at\u00e2t de mult puroi misogin. Femei care, probabil se vor urca \u00een acela\u0219i metrou cu Anastasia, care \u00ee\u0219i trimit copiii la acelea\u0219i \u0219coli cu copiii no\u0219tri, \u0103\u0219tia care ne zv\u00e2rcolim de revolt\u0103 \u0219i durere de s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 \u00eencoace, sau dup\u0103 fiecare \u0219tire despre femei umilite, b\u0103tute, ucise acas\u0103, la serviciu, \u00een p\u0103dure sau \u00een mijlocul bulevardului F\u0102R\u0102 CA NIMENI S\u0102 INTERVIN\u0102!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum, Doamne iart\u0103-m\u0103, ajungi ca femeie s\u0103 comentezi la moartea alteia \u00een asemenea hal? Cum \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi, \u00een calitate de om, de fiin\u021b\u0103 biped\u0103 care se presupune c\u0103 are cap \u0219i creier s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103, s\u0103 dai vina pe un trup rece, f\u0103r\u0103 via\u021b\u0103, care nu-\u021bi mai poate r\u0103spunde?<\/h5>\n\n\n\n
Cum m\u0103, cum ai ajuns ca femeie s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 violen\u021ba, sub orice form\u0103, e moneda corect\u0103 de schimb pentru o alt\u0103 femeie care a ales, a gre\u0219it sau poate, a refuzat? Nu, nu pot s\u0103 pricep. Nu pot s\u0103 citesc a\u0219a ceva \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103t cu ap\u0103 rece c\u0103 sunt doar ni\u0219te nebuni pe internet, c\u0103 nu sunt. Oamenii \u0103\u0219tia de tip cangren\u0103 sunt parte dintr-un sistem care ne devoreaz\u0103 \u0219i pe noi \u00eencetul cu \u00eencetul.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i de-aia urlu acum, c\u0103 m\u0103 doare sufletul.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 nici acum nu spunem nimic, dac\u0103 nu url\u0103m c\u0103 e total gre\u0219it ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, dac\u0103 nu ar\u0103t\u0103m cu degetul spre nedreptate \u0219i dac\u0103 nu ne lu\u0103m de m\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 facem scuturi umane \u00een jurul femeilor care au fost jignite, umilite, b\u0103tute, ucise, atunci suntem complici!!! T\u0103cerea noastr\u0103 e tot un comentariu din \u0103la mizerabil, doar c\u0103 nu se vede negru pe alb sub un video\/articol, dar se vede \u00een statistici \u0219i \u00een morminte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Surs\u0103 foto: Facebook\/mihaela buruian\u0103<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Doamne-Dumnezeule bun, am ajuns s\u0103-mi fie fric\u0103 s\u0103-mi las fata s\u0103 mearg\u0103 singur\u0103 la magazinul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103, de\u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 e atent\u0103 \u0219i responsabil\u0103? S\u0103-mi fie fric\u0103 s\u0103-i spun s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een oameni, pentru c\u0103 adev\u0103rul pur e c\u0103 n-ar trebui s\u0103 se \u00eencread\u0103 \u00een nimeni? S\u0103-mi fie fric\u0103 s-o \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 fie atent\u0103 la tonul vocii cu care refuz\u0103 vreun b\u0103iat, s\u0103 nu provoace, s\u0103 nu cumva s\u0103 fie prea direct\u0103, prea curajoas\u0103, prea asumat\u0103, prea orice, pentru c\u0103 \u00een lumea asta de rahat, \u00een care un b\u0103rbat poate s\u0103 omoare o fat\u0103 \u00een plin\u0103 zi, pe strad\u0103, \u0219i nimeni s\u0103 nu o salveze, s\u0103 nu o apere, s\u0103 nu opreasc\u0103 ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, \u00een lumea asta noi vorbim doar despre ce \u201es-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat\u201d \u0219i nu facem absolut NIMIC pentru ce \u201ese \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103\u201d? Zi de zi, undeva \u00een \u021bara asta SE \u00ceNT\u00c2MPL\u0102. E previzibil. E repetitiv. \u0218i noi st\u0103m. Privim. \u00cenmorm\u00e2nt\u0103m. It\u2019s all good la noi \u00een bul\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moartea Teodorei este o ru\u0219ine colectiv\u0103.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nou\u0103 nu ne mai pas\u0103, legile nu protejeaz\u0103, apelurile la 112 nu salveaz\u0103, institu\u021biile se \u00eempotmolesc \u00een h\u00e2rtii, victimele sunt \u00eentotdeauna de vin\u0103, oamenii nu \u0219tiu altceva dec\u00e2t c\u0103 sigur victimele au f\u0103cut ceva s\u0103 merite abuzul\/violen\u021ba. Practic o femeie e mereu suspect\u0103 de supravie\u021buire. Toate femeile, mai pu\u021bin Teodora, c\u0103 ea nu mai e, a fost ucis\u0103. \u0218i \u00een locul ei putea fi oricare dintre noi. Sau fiica oric\u0103reia dintre noi. Sau sora oric\u0103reia dintre noi. Sau colega noastr\u0103 de munc\u0103. Sau noi, c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 facem o alegere, o gre\u0219eal\u0103, un gest care unui b\u0103rbat o s\u0103 i se par\u0103 justificat s\u0103 fim pedepsite prin orice form\u0103 de abuz sau violen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i mor pe \u0103\u0219tia care m\u0103 numesc feminist\u0103. Noi chiar ne prefacem ca la teatru c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o societate \u00een care femeile sunt egale cu b\u0103rba\u021bii, este? Da, pentru c\u0103 fix asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 egalitate de drepturi \u0219i libert\u0103\u021bi, o societate \u00een care o femeie cu un copil \u00een bra\u021be e \u00eempu\u0219cat\u0103 ziua pe strad\u0103 \u0219i \u00eentre timp poli\u021bia \u201eurm\u0103rea \u00eendeaproape cazul\u201d, dar n-a apucat s\u0103 previn\u0103 nimic, s\u0103raca institu\u021bie. O institu\u021bie ruin\u0103, \u00een care violen\u021ba domestic\u0103 e tratat\u0103 ca o ceart\u0103 banal\u0103 \u00een familie, iar trauma femeilor \u0219i a miilor de copiii martori e pus\u0103 frumos la dosar cu \u0219in\u0103, cu bun\u0103voin\u021ba unui func\u021bionar public (a se citi pl\u0103tit \u0219i din banii victimelor abuzurilor, violen\u021belor) care merge lini\u0219tit acas\u0103 la copiii lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu sunt mam\u0103 de fat\u0103 \u0219i nu mai am voie s\u0103-mi permit luxul de a vorbi frumos despre toate lucrurile care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een online \u0219i-n via\u021ba real\u0103. Nu mai pot doar s\u0103 sper c\u0103 dac\u0103 o educ acas\u0103 cum trebuie, dac\u0103 \u00eei cresc stim\u0103 de sine, dac\u0103 o \u00eenv\u0103\u021b despre limite s\u0103n\u0103toase, dac\u0103 o cresc s\u0103 fie corect\u0103, curajoas\u0103 \u0219i asumat\u0103, asta o va ap\u0103ra. NU O VA AP\u0102RA. Pentru c\u0103 realitatea \u00eengrozitoare \u00een care tr\u0103im \u00eemi arat\u0103 clar c\u0103 sistemul nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103, nici educa\u021bia, nici poli\u021bia, nici instan\u021bele de judecat\u0103, nici legile, nici oamenii de pe strad\u0103 care v\u0103d \u0219i nu intervin, nici noi, dac\u0103 t\u0103cem confortabil \u00een bula noastr\u0103 roz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 nu mai tac, nu dau vina pe femei care mor, nu mai \u00eenv\u0103\u021b pe nimeni s\u0103 \u201eaib\u0103 grij\u0103\u201d, ci o s\u0103 URLU LA toat\u0103 lumea s\u0103 NU MAI LOVEASC\u0102, s\u0103 NU MAI UMILEASC\u0102, s\u0103 NU MAI UCID\u0102. \u0218i dac\u0103 lumea asta, \u021bara, sistemul, oamenii care \u00eel compun nu pot \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba nimic din toate astea, atunci trebuie s\u0103 \u00eei\/le schimb\u0103m din temelii. Cu vocea, cu furia, cu protestul, cu votul, cu legea, cu fiecare mam\u0103 care url\u0103 pentru dreptate \u0219i siguran\u021b\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103-\u0219i pl\u00e2ng\u0103 copilul la cimitir, cu fiecare copil care spune \u201emerit s\u0103 cresc f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103\u201d!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dreptul la via\u021b\u0103 nu se negociaz\u0103! Dreptul la siguran\u021ba personala nu e o favoare!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Surs\u0103 foto: facebook\/ feminism rom\u00e2nia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Teodora, iart\u0103-ne c\u0103 n-am fost acolo. Iart\u0103-ne c\u0103 de at\u00e2tea ori alegem s\u0103 ne protej\u0103m confortul. Iart\u0103-ne c\u0103 nu te-am \u0219tiut p\u00e2n\u0103 ai murit. O s\u0103 te \u021binem \u00een minte, n-o s\u0103 te l\u0103s\u0103m s\u0103 dispari. \u0218i NU o s\u0103 ne oprim s\u0103 repet\u0103m: sistemul \u0103sta ne omoar\u0103 \u0219i ne \u00eengroap\u0103 normalitatea.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Am crezut c\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai poate surprinde nimic din ce v\u0103d \u00een online, p\u00e2n\u0103 am citit comentariile pline de satisfac\u021bie morbid\u0103 ale unor oameni care sus\u021bin cu o convingere…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3083,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"powerkit_post_featured":[2,3,4,6],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3080"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3080"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3080\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3084,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3080\/revisions\/3084"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3080"},{"taxonomy":"powerkit_post_featured","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordmaniangirl.ro\/?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fpowerkit_post_featured&post=3080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}